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Three things to know before making your next fundraising ask

At one time or another, most non-profit donor relationships involve asks. When making asks, it is imperative that fundraisers come from a donor-centered perspective. Joe Garecht reports.

Here are three important parts of the donor mindset – three things you must understand in order to make successful asks:

People don’t like to be ‘sold’

Whether it is a used car salesperson, an insurance agent making a cold call, or a non-profit fundraiser making an ask, people don’t like feeling as if they are being sold something.

That’s why the best sales people use conversations to draw out wants and needs from buyers, and then present them with a product or service that fills their needs. That’s why insurance agents make the most of their sales through referrals by friends, family, and current customers. And that’s why non-profit fundraisers need to cultivate first and ask second.

People don’t want to feel as if your non- profit is “selling” them something. They worry that they will make a donation to you and wake up the next day with “donor’s remorse.” The best way to overcome this fear is to build a relationship with your prospect. Find out what they are interested in... what programmes or services that you offer are most important to them . . . how they want to give. Make your cultivation and your ask about them, not about you.

People want to give

While people don’t like to be sold, they do like to give. People like to give to non- profits. Giving makes them feel good, and provides them with very real psychological and/or spiritual rewards. Make it easy for them to give. Paint a compelling picture. People want to give and be helpful in general, and if you build a relationship with them and paint a big enough vision, they will want to give and be helpful specifically to your organisation.

People don’t give unless they are asked

This is a key point that needs to be driven home for every organisation: for the most part, people don’t give unless they are asked.

Rare indeed is the situation where your non-profit receives a sizable donation from a person or company without first asking that person or company to donate. People want to give, but they won’t give unless you ask them.

Far too many non-profits set up fundraising events and hope for the best, without making any real asks. Sending out invitations to a fundraising event is the weakest possible form of an ask. In fact, it’s almost a non-ask.

Asking people from your board and support networks to co-host the event and sell 10 tickets each . . .that is an ask. Asking companies to sponsor the event at R5000 a pop . . . that is an ask, too. Just slapping stamps on invitations? Not really an ask.

The other major problem I see with non-profits is the belief that because they are doing good work, if they just get their name out there, get brochures into the right hands, get a couple of good stories in the local paper, and spend some time at events and tours talking about how much money you need to keep operating, that the money will come rolling in. Nothing is further from the truth. Mentioning how much money you need is not an ask.

Talking about how much money you need, then directly asking someone (in person or on the phone) to give a certain portion of that amount... that, my friends, is an ask.

Asks are questions. Asks mention specific amounts. Asks are made in such a way that they need to be answered, either yes or no. People don’t give unless they are asked.

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